Probably every woman knows how difficult it is to attract a worthy man: while you find the one, you have to go through a relationship with people who turn out to be quite different from those with whom you want to connect your life. Is it possible to attract “the one” by making an effort to do so? We are sure that it is possible.
There are no identical people, it is our features that attract certain partners into our lives. It may seem to you that you laugh too loud, dress so that your friends politely make comments, you begin to feel that something is wrong with you. You shouldn’t rebuild yourself to please your surroundings, because you can’t hide yourself from a man, so you can’t pretend to be someone you’re not – a direct way to a relationship with a person who will eventually be a temporary partner again. Be brave and be yourself.
Stop pretending to be stupid
For a long time, women sincerely believed that a raid of light stupidity in behavior makes a man melt and take care of you. It is cute only at first, after a few months of relationships, a man will get tired and, logically, irritated. A confident man is able to “cope” with your strong nature, so show weakness only occasionally, so that a man can show care for you, but it is not necessary to do it permanently – a confident man needs the same confident girl.
Make friends with yourself
Many women enter into a relationship of despair – age squeezes, friends all married, relatives press and other reasons. Remember that men perfectly read desperate girls and do not rush to take on the role of “savior”. In this state, you can only attract the same desperate partner or, worse, a manipulator, which at any opportunity will remind you that if it was not for him, you would have remained a loner. Learn to rejoice in your position, your calmness and calmness in communicating with the opposite gender will be much more useful than despair in your eyes.
Know your price
A point that follows smoothly from the previous one. An insecure woman who agrees to any more or less comfortable relationship causes in men not always pity, but often aggression. Even if you admire a man, set the limits of what is acceptable, for example, do not allow physical violence in any form. Remember that no worthy and self-confident person will allow themselves to be unhappy with a woman or anyone else. Always think about yourself and your feelings in the first place.